Rachel Havekost
Rachel Havekost is an author and mental health creator sharing memoir, poetry, guided journals, and candid reflections on recovery, grief, and being human.
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Overview
- Work
- Author, mental health writer, and speaker
- From
- Grew up in Seattle
- Now
- Moved to Los Angeles in 2026
- Started sharing
- Published her blog in 2020
- Signature work
- Where the River Flows, her 2021 memoir
- Newsletter
- The Messy Middle, started in 2022
- Studies
- Master’s degree in psychology
Mini bio
How it started.
Rachel grew up in Seattle and began publishing her blog in 2020. Her writing draws on her own experience of an eating disorder, depression, therapy, and recovery. She wanted to make those experiences easier to talk about and help readers feel less alone.
Finding her voice.
In her interview with The Emily Program, Rachel describes how group therapy helped loosen the shame she felt about her eating disorder. She began sharing her story online and at awareness walks. Reading Glennon Doyle’s Love Warrior encouraged her to consider a memoir, and a divorce during the pandemic gave her the push to write it.
Books and community.
Her memoir Where the River Flows arrived in 2021, followed by the writing workbook Write to Heal in 2022. Her work also includes guided journals and workshops on writing and inner child work. By 2023, her author biography described a community of more than 300,000 across social media and a completed master’s degree in psychology.
The messy middle.
Rachel started The Messy Middle on Substack in 2022 and announced a new visual and editorial direction in February 2026. Her 2025 book Look Up gathers poems and short notes for periods of uncertainty and change. In June 2026, she shared that she had moved to Los Angeles and was working full time for Airbnb while continuing to write.
Creditschronological, newest first
Books
- 2025Look Up: A Guide for Navigating Life’s Uncertainties and Finding Your HorizonAuthor
- 2022Write to HealAuthor
- 2021Where the River FlowsAuthor
Newsletters
- 2022The Messy MiddleWriter and creator
Awards
Quotes
The more I shared my story, the less power it had over me.Rachel Havekost, The Emily Program Q&A
In a November 2023 interview about her memoir, Rachel reflected on how sharing her experience helped reduce isolation and shame.
Trivia
- Glennon Doyle’s Love Warrior helped give her the courage to tell her own story.
- The first post she recalls publishing on Substack was about meeting a sheep in Scotland.
- She prefers telling stories with visuals and voiceovers to filming talking videos.
- Her newsletter rebrand takes inspiration from MSN, MTV captions, and early 2000s blog culture.
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