Whitni Miller
Whitni Miller, known as BDE Moves, is a sex educator, queer couples intimacy coach and host of Own Your Pleasure, sharing conversations about desire, communication and connection.
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Known for
Overview
- Also known as
- BDE Moves
- Work
- Sex educator, queer couples intimacy and relationship coach, podcast host
- Business founded
- BDE Moves, LLC, 2022
- Podcast debut
- Own Your Pleasure, January 19, 2024
Mini bio
Where it began.
Whitni brings a background in yoga philosophy to her work on sex and relationships. In her own professional biography, she describes helping Dr. Lori Brotto’s research team share information about low desire through social media. She established BDE Moves, LLC in 2022.
Finding her audience.
Her TikTok and Instagram work focuses on pleasure, desire and communicating with partners. By 2022, she was taking those conversations onto other creators’ podcasts, including Make Some Noise and Sex Ed with DB. Her approach asks people to pay attention to what they feel and to talk openly about their needs.
Making space for connection.
On January 19, 2024, Whitni introduced Own Your Pleasure with a conversation with psychologist Dr. Nikki. The show brings guests into discussions about sex, relationships and self-advocacy. Alongside the podcast, her coaching centers queer couples and the emotional communication that supports intimacy.
Creditschronological, newest first
Podcasts
- 2024–presentOwn Your PleasureCreator and host
- 2023Pleasure for ALL Humans with Whitni MillerGuest, Sexually Speaking with Shannon
- 2022Desire and Pleasure with Whitni MillerGuest, Sex Ed with DB
- 2022Intimacy, Sex, and Relationships with Whitni MillerGuest, Make Some Noise, episode 491
Workshops
- 2023Queer CommunionCo-facilitator with Skully
Quotes
Less performing, more feeling!Whitni Miller, BDE Moves website
One of the pleasure tips she shares on her official About page.
Trivia
- BDE Moves stands for Big Dick Energy Moves, as Whitni explained on Make Some Noise.
- Her official biography lists a degree in project management and training from the Sexual Health Alliance.
- Her wife Janelle joins her on Own Your Pleasure to answer community questions about their relationship dynamic.
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Podcast
Own Your Pleasure