Answering fans’ questions about kinks and fantasies
Vanessa and Xander answered listener questions about fantasies, differences in desire, and exploring together without shame.
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Vanessa Marin
Vanessa Marin is a sex therapist, author of Sex Talks, and cohost of Pillow Talks with her husband Xander, sharing frank conversations about intimacy and long-term relationships.
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vmtherapy.comPillow Talks #284A Pillow Talks guide to reverse cowgirl
The pair devoted an episode to the position, covering comfort, staying connected, and small adjustments for pleasure.
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Talking about AI images and relationship boundaries
In an Is This Normal? episode, Vanessa and Xander discussed a listener’s question about AI sexual images, alongside questions about frequency and trying something again.
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Unpacking listeners’ bedroom disagreements
Their latest Am I the Asshole? installment explored kissing after oral sex, weight gain and intimacy, and what happens when one partner is not enjoying sex.
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An episode on making initiation feel better
Vanessa and Xander explored common initiation mistakes, including poor timing and making a partner feel pressured, and shared ways to communicate interest.
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